Planning Guide for Second Weddings
A take two in saying “I do” has been quite common these past years due to the increasing number of divorce cases in the country. But even though, people say that first love is hard to die, getting married can be sweeter the second time around if have found the right person and if you know how to plan your second wedding the right way. After all, in love, you can always have a second chance so here are some brilliant ideas on how to have a wonderful second wedding.
Wedding Announcement
Before you can actually start with the planning of the wedding, the first thing you have to think about is the wedding announcement. For some couples, informing people about the fact that they are getting married again, may be a little difficult.
It is important to remember that before you announce the wedding to other people, you should first inform your children first, in private. This way, they will not be caught off guard or feel pressured because all eyes would be on them if you do the announcement in public.
After that, you can tell the news to your parents. You would also have to talk to your ex-spouse and former in laws. If you do not have good relationship with your ex-spouse, what you can do is to send a simple gracious note.
Wedding Dress
Traditionally, brides getting married the second time are not allowed to wear white but this old custom has been thrown out of the window by modern brides. Brides can wear anything they want including a white dress. The important thing is here you consider important factors such as age, personal taste and style, and nature of the wedding event when choosing a dress.
Many second-time brides, who want to project a mature look, opt for brocade suits or cocktail dress instead of the usual princess type of gown. It is up to you to decide what kind of wedding dress you think would be comfortable and beautiful to wear on the wedding day.
Participation of Children
If you or your partner have children, it would be best to give them a special part in the wedding event. The role would depend on what is suitable for their age and gender. They can be a flower girl, ring bearer, bridesmaid, groomsman, maid of honor, or best man. They can read a part in the ceremony or make a toast during the reception. See to it that they are willing to do the part, do not coerce your children if they do not feel comfortable in participating. Their mere presence is gift enough.
Invitations
Most second weddings are intimate gatherings of close family members and friends. But if you decide to hold a large wedding, it is imperative that you give out printed invitations. Rules of etiquette state that it is not proper to invite your ex-spouse to the wedding but it is still up to you. If you really have good relationship with your ex-spouse and you are sure that it would not feel awkward, then it may be all right.
More Tips
- Enjoy the event. Do not feel too pressured about the wedding planning. Do not stress yourself thinking about the first wedding and making sure that you do not do something that you have already done before.
- Have a fun and romantic theme. Getting married the second time around gives you a chance to do something that you wanted but you were not able to do. If you want to have a fabulous beach wedding or a sporty golf wedding this time, go ahead.
- Be practical. This is your second time so you already have an idea on how expensive a wedding can be. You also know that you should make practical choice and decisions so you do not overspend for your wedding day.
Planning a second wedding may be easy and hard at the same time. On one hand, it is easy because you know your way around as you have already done this before. But it can also be difficult because there are more things to consider such as your children. With the tips mentioned in this article, you should not have too much difficulty planning and you will surely have a fabulous wedding that you will forever cherish.
Source: Wendi Clark is an expert article writer on the topic of weddings. This article was sponsored by TheBridalCoach.ca, the first wedding planning membership site on the internet specializing in wedding reception site planning and wedding ceremony site planning.
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